A man's good name is his best monument {Anonymous}
On Tuesday 29th October, we had to say goodbye to our friend, colleague and the all round wonderful chap, Chris Whelan. Guildford Crematorium was packed to the rafters with friends, family and people who had been graced with knowing Chris. A testament to the man himself who was loved, respected and admired by evidentally so many.
The service was a fitting tribute, with awesome music, touching readings, lots of laughs and many more tears. What better way to say goodbye than for the sound operative at the crem cocking up his cue. Chris would have laughed as the man leading the service had to shout "Not now SAM!!!" and "Ok Sam, Play please!" The timing couldn't have been planned any better!
It was great to see so many familiar faces from the Arnaud and panto, despite the sad circumstances. The Arnaud crew have worked with him for so long and become such good friends, that it was understandably such a difficult day. Usually this lot only get together for "good reason" so to see them so cut up, only goes to show, how dear Chris was. It's not pleasant seeing your friends upset as I'm sure everyone can relate too.
If the Arnaud crew are involved....where better to go afterwards than the Brit - frequented by Mr Whelan and the gang on many occasion and after many a fit up/get out. Tears soon turned to laughter as we raised a glass to Chris, shared memories and looked back on old pictures. Chris has been "Sound Op 1" on the Arnaud panto for nine years, this year would have been his tenth - and it's sad to think he won't be there, standing at the back of the auditorium smiling down and gesturing to us! One hell of a hole has been left; thankfully one of Chris' best friends - the equally as legendary Chris Tindall (Sound 2) will be carrying on with the job - the perfect replacement and undoubtedly the person CW would have wanted to take over!
I suggested a curry at the end of the evening, Chrises favourite after show supper... there were twenty of us and we all agreed it was the best way to end the day. He certainly had a good send off... he gave me the worst hangover I've had in a couple of years, so I think he'd be chuckling away to himself and feeling proud!
I was lucky enough to work with Chris twice, and to be able to call him a friend. Even when I wasn't doing panto at the Arnaud he'd always seem happy to see me, and suggest a beer! Such a lovely guy! Chris was unfortunately victim to a heart attack, and it is my belief that the COD this year will be in memory of Chris and any donations will go towards a defibrillator for the theatre.
It's been a pleasure Chris, thanks for the funny memories, my warm neck (he loved his Snoods) and the extra poppadums that night!!
Rest well mate - you'll be sorely missed by all that were lucky enough to know you!
Jay x 
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